Existence of Dowry System & Domestic violence in urban areas proves that education doesn’t really give you ability to think and react.
It totally depends on our thinking. We people have maintained a mentality that girl child is burden of life.
Except the few cities or you can say big cities, the fear of having a girl child can be seen in almost every family. And if they don’t have fear of girl child that might because of a boy child in their family.
Since, India is a male dominated country, that is why every family needs a so called ‘’VAARIS” in their family.
So, the question which arise here is, “ Why a boy is so called ‘VAARIS’ of a family, why not a girl? Girls are giving competitions to boys in every perspective of a life, then why are boys so called dominated? Why families have to give Dowry during their daughter’s marriage?”. The boys are somehow more successful than girls but the fault is not of girls. It is all about the matter of opportunities which boys are getting more than girls.
Poor people or people belong to backward places hate girl child just because they are not “VAARIS” and because of the fear of giving dowry for their marriage.
Why these innocent girl children should be killed just because of these reasons?
Another reason of fear of having girl child is the increase of rape cases, but I don't want to discuss this topic now.
During marriages, a girl’s parent give the piece of their heart (their daughter), in hope that the boy (son-in-law) & his family will take care of their princess, but the violence just because of dowry make them helpless. It’s too shameful.
In many cases, marriages are canceled just because of dowry.
Is the money which you get as dowry is so valuable than Relationship?
It is a matter of shame that the mentality of people is not changing. It is totally shameful, if you cancel the marriage just because of dowry.
STOP KILLING GIRL CHILD, BUT PLEASE KILL THE DOWRY SYSTEM.
This is we people who decide and do everything. So it’s time to change.